I feel the same, and I think a growing number of people are
feeling this way.
Our gahmen still refuses to realise that this is in fact a major
push factor for Singaporeans to either migrate, not have kids, or
deliberately arrange for their wives to give birth overseas (I have
friends in the US, Australia, and Canada who will be willing to let
me and mrs av stay with them until she gives birth, if I ever get
married
)